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Written by Nathan Greenberg
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Friday, 18 March 2011 19:04 |
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For those of who haven't seen or heard about it, a video posted Monday on YouTube (since taken down) involving a high school bully and his "victim" has gone viral. A friend of mine on Facebook posted it and I was amazed at what I saw.
You can watch the video for yourself and learn why tens of thousands of people all over the world are defending Casey. As reported on Deadspin.com, both boys have been suspended and this fight is getting international attention.
The boy on the left (Ritchard) is younger and obviously smaller. But for some reason he is intent on bullying a larger kid (Casey). The video begins with a bit of posturing and taunts, then a left jab to the face. Casey hardly flinches. After a few more taunts and hits, Casey defends himself.
The strange thing for me is that I'm not sure what my reaction is. Its disturbing to see two high school students fighting. Its also sad to see Ritchard so shamelessly being a bully. All pride and no brains. Casey is left with one option and that is to defend himself. But was his rage justified? I'd like to think so. When I was in high school, a friend of mine told me that his dad gave him a rule about fighting: you never start a fight, but you better finish it. Casey certainly did that. Many, many adults are cheering Casey as a hero and someone who stood up for himself. And unfortunately, there is no shortage of kids who suffer a bully and may one day explode as Casey did.
Dads, how would you handle this situation? What if you were Ritchard's dad? What if you were Casey's dad?
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Troubling - very troubling.
That's how it would have been at my high school. "Zero tolerance for fighting". Sometimes those zero tolerance policies were really stupid!
Having watched this video, it shows a final act of desperation of one that results from ongoing degradation and self defense.
Perhaps we can learn from this and have the legal system forbid such bullying which is destroying families and is responsible for 30,000 deaths a year. Accountability through incarcerating attorney who intentionally inflict psychological, emotional and financial damage. This negligence is held accountable in our courts all the time... what's good for the goose is good for the gander. Either legal consequences or Casey's reaction to ongoing abuse.
I speak from experience from having lost my house, car, financial portfolio, job and recently visitation with my daughter for not having the funds to pay for further "services" ordered by the courts. It has been a year since I have had my daughter. For all you Dads who are victims of a gender biased legal system. I wish and pray you all survive and react in a way that will let others know we will not be bullied.
Cheer for the victims and underdogs - Go Casey! I'm glad he settled it this way and not like a Columbine.